People with goals in their lives can concentrate on ways to accomplish these objectives. By developing a strategic plan, you can conceive innovative ideas and resolve any obstacles that may obstruct your goals. However, it is important to identify initially the things that you want to happen. Setting personal targets require you to determine your achievements and the time limit in getting what you want.
Setting Negative Goals The way you think about your personal goals can contribute on how you feel about them, and whether you will achieve them or not. For example, a lot of people set a goal to "lose weight." But, such goal connotes something negative. It is basically centered on something you do not want, and that is your weight. One positive way to reverse this without actually changing the results you want is by setting a goal to "be healthy."
Another example of a goal that implies something negative is "stop staying up late." One positive way to rewrite this is to "go to bed early." Negative goals are not emotionally uplifting. Such goals may give you a harder time focusing and working on them. Rephrase any of your negative goals so they will sound positive.
Targeting at the Past. Too often, some people are pressured to catch up on the things they should have accomplished the previous years. The result is, a too long and too congested list of goals and resolutions written down out of the anxiety over procrastination and missed opportunities. If this is your case, do not be too hard on yourself.Remember, you cannot bring back the past, all the opportunities you missed, the time you lost. You need to shift your focus to the present. If you don't and keep on aiming on the past, you will find yourself always catching up until it would be impossible to refocus yourself to the present.
The likelihood of failure will always haunt you. This can be the result of goal-setting which is too high or very low. Either way, you can only offset this by believing in yourself. Do not adopt the mentality of being afraid to screw up. Everyone commits mistakes but these errors should not bring you down. Keep in mind that the uncertainties of people are often without basis. It does not matter if other people criticize or mock you. The more important thing is to be successful.
Do not postpone your timetable. Remember that you have formulated a clear objective from the very start. You have the option to change, modify as you proceed and situations change. Yet, continue for as long as these objectives remain reasonable and reachable. Explore solutions at all times. This will keep you thinking positively and staying on track. As you go along, you will soon discover that you have become an improved person compared to what you were when this goal-setting was on its initial stages. You will notice the changes gradually. When you start making comparisons, it will dawn upon you that life is more encouraging and everything is brighter.
Setting Negative Goals The way you think about your personal goals can contribute on how you feel about them, and whether you will achieve them or not. For example, a lot of people set a goal to "lose weight." But, such goal connotes something negative. It is basically centered on something you do not want, and that is your weight. One positive way to reverse this without actually changing the results you want is by setting a goal to "be healthy."
Another example of a goal that implies something negative is "stop staying up late." One positive way to rewrite this is to "go to bed early." Negative goals are not emotionally uplifting. Such goals may give you a harder time focusing and working on them. Rephrase any of your negative goals so they will sound positive.
Targeting at the Past. Too often, some people are pressured to catch up on the things they should have accomplished the previous years. The result is, a too long and too congested list of goals and resolutions written down out of the anxiety over procrastination and missed opportunities. If this is your case, do not be too hard on yourself.Remember, you cannot bring back the past, all the opportunities you missed, the time you lost. You need to shift your focus to the present. If you don't and keep on aiming on the past, you will find yourself always catching up until it would be impossible to refocus yourself to the present.
The likelihood of failure will always haunt you. This can be the result of goal-setting which is too high or very low. Either way, you can only offset this by believing in yourself. Do not adopt the mentality of being afraid to screw up. Everyone commits mistakes but these errors should not bring you down. Keep in mind that the uncertainties of people are often without basis. It does not matter if other people criticize or mock you. The more important thing is to be successful.
Do not postpone your timetable. Remember that you have formulated a clear objective from the very start. You have the option to change, modify as you proceed and situations change. Yet, continue for as long as these objectives remain reasonable and reachable. Explore solutions at all times. This will keep you thinking positively and staying on track. As you go along, you will soon discover that you have become an improved person compared to what you were when this goal-setting was on its initial stages. You will notice the changes gradually. When you start making comparisons, it will dawn upon you that life is more encouraging and everything is brighter.
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